Get Ready, Set your Goal, Change your Life!

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Change is never easy, especially when it requires us to dramatically alter the way we’ve become accustom to living our lives. Leaving our comfort....

Get Ready, Set your Goal, Change your Life!

One day I was working, calling on a customer who wasn’t answering her phone. Her voice mail message was in a usual manner, “…we’re not home, leave a message…” what followed was not so usual. It continued, “…by the way, there was some changes made recently, if we don’t call you back, you’re one of the changes, beep”. I was shocked, my first reaction was disbelief that it was probably one of the rudest messages I had ever heard (and I’ve heard quite a few!). But I was unable to ignore it, my perspective was changed by the end of the day. I began to admire this woman, who was obviously at the end of her rope. I don’t know the reason, but she was very determined, to end relationships that were affecting her life in a negative way. 

There is no change that is easy, especially when it requires us to dramatically alter the way we’ve become accustom to living our lives. Leaving our comfort zone, no matter how much we dislike it, requires a combination of bravery and determination, as well as education in that area. 

We want some changes in ourselves, we become so desperate to make ourselves better, we hastily make ineffective and, sometimes expensive, decisions that we feel will quickly produce the results we are looking for. Purchasing a costly gym membership and vowing to attend seven days a week while surviving on lettuce, may seem like a great idea for a few weeks (if you’re very determined,) but how long can you live like that? 

To ensure your success take these steps if you’re serious about making a long-term change in your life. 

Educate Yourself

Education is the most important key to your success, aside from determination. Knowing exactly what you must do to accomplish your goals will give you the power to make them a reality. Consult a professional or check out a book written by a credible authority on the subject. You can also tap the wealth of information to be found on the Internet. Friends and acquaintances can also provide insight. I have a good friend who is very organized, an area in which I am always trying to improve. Over the years I have learned a great deal from watching her manage her incredibly busy life. 

Set Reasonable Goals

You are not going to lose 30 pounds in two weeks. Nor are you going to undo years of financial irresponsibility in six months, you will get a real picture After becoming educated of how long it will be before you should expect to see results. Having this knowledge upfront will prevent you from giving up too soon. 

Plan and Track

Long-term commitment goals that you’re trying to accomplish, Buy a journal or notebook to write down your goals may it be long or short term. Detail how you will carry them out and when you will complete them. Check each item off as you accomplish it. Keeping a journal to record your achievements can be motivating on those days when you feel like sliding back to your old ways. 

Just Say No

 The situations that will prevent you from accomplishing your goals avoid them. This is especially important in the beginning, before your new way of life comes natural to you. 

Always appreciate yourself

If you are making the decision to improve the quality of your life, then be proud of yourself. When you reach important milestones, reward yourself in a way that is in sync with your new lifestyle. A new outfit motivates you to lose weight but would be considered a setback if you’re trying to cut back on spending. 

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Categories: Goal Setting Series